A Nation in a Hurry · a book by Dr. Faris

We got faster at everything — and weaker at what matters most.

A quiet reckoning with what a nation loses when it forgets how to slow down.

01 Excerpt

7:15 in the morning. The light turns red. A mother brakes and thumbs one last message — “You there yet?” In the back seat, her child is telling her about last night’s dream. She nods. Not a single word reaches her.

We are all that mother. Present in body, absent in spirit. Everywhere at once, and nowhere at all.

The world promises one thing: speed. Fast food, fast news, and now even affection comes with a button — so we never have to stop and truly feel it. And we believe it. We measure a life by how much we finish in a day, not by how deeply we enter any one thing.

But some things refuse to be rushed. Trust takes years to build and a moment to collapse. A child grows on its own clock, not our calendar. A hurried prayer is only recitation; only a slow one becomes a prayer. And real understanding cannot be forced — it comes only to those willing to sit still long enough to let it arrive.

Fast to read, weak at understanding.
Fast to reply, weak at listening.
Fast to move — unsure toward what.

This book is not a plea to be slow. It is a plea to choose — what deserves our slowness, in a world that demands we be fast at all of it. Because a nation in a hurry does not, in the end, lose time. It loses depth.

02 The Problem

Cover design. Not yet printed.

Three

The Lost Art of Waiting

My grandfather owned a single watch, and he was never late. We own a dozen clocks — on our wrists, our walls, our screens — and we are always running. Somewhere between his time and ours, waiting stopped being a part of life and became a failure of it.

He would sit on the veranda after Maghrib and do, as far as I could tell, nothing at all. No book, no radio, no company. Once I asked him what he was waiting for. “Nothing,” he said. “I already arrived.”

· 31 ·

We have confused motion with progress, and progress with meaning. A person can spend a decade in a great hurry and arrive nowhere they meant to go.

The tragedy is not that we are busy. It is that we are busy with the wrong things — and too rushed to notice the difference.

Depth is not a luxury for the idle. It is the only place where certain truths agree to live.

· 47 ·

A few pages from the finished manuscript. Swipe →

The manuscript has been finished for two years. It lacks only one thing: permission to exist.

Three publishers read it. All three nodded, praised it — and passed. Not because it was weak, but because a book that asks people to think slowly has no place on the shelves that sell. Too quiet, they said, for a noisy market.

This is the fate of a good idea here. Not that it lacks worth — but that it isn’t fast enough for a system that only knows how to sell what’s fast. So it sits in a drawer: fully written, never read.

03 How

This book won’t wait for a publisher’s nerve.
It exists the moment its readers say “yes” first.

  1. 1 You pre-order today — RM35.
  2. 2 At 400 readers, we print — exactly to demand, not a single copy wasted.
  3. 3 The book reaches your hands within eight weeks.

214 / 400 copies guaranteed

Every green dot is one copy certain to be printed — one voice saying: this book deserves to exist.

You’re only charged if the 400 goal is reached. If it isn’t, you’re refunded in full. There is no risk — except leaving this idea buried in a drawer.

04 The Author

Dr. Faris

Nineteen years teaching philosophy.

He writes slowly, reads more slowly still, and refuses to dance in front of a camera just to sell what he wrote.

“If the idea needs me to jump around to sell it — maybe it isn’t as strong as I thought.”

So we made a deal. He writes; we let the idea speak. And you — you decide whether the world gets to hear it in time.

Ideas don’t spread through advertising. They spread when one person hands one to another and says: “read this.”

If a single sentence up there made you pause — that’s the sign. Send this page to someone who needs to slow down.